3 Laws in Text Messages Flirt

Is SMS one of the greatest tools for flirting and building attraction?

Well, first think about everything that goes into building attraction with someone in the real world. Such as your hair, eyes, smell, confidence, words, timing, clothes, witty remarks, and the list goes on. I call these attraction triggers.


Now, it's hard to build attraction with someone in the real world because you have to account for every attraction trigger or else you will be unsuccessful in your dating. So basically, the less attraction triggers, you have the better your chances of success in building attraction and interest to do.


Texting messages does just that. All you change the words and the timing and you're done. You text the right words at the right time and you can expect to triple or double your success in dating. I've seen it happen hundreds of times. Flirting is the key to getting the ball rolling in the right direction.


It to be redundant, but an important part in building attraction. One of your main purposes when texting is to flirt. I will share with you the 3 most important laws, which must follow each time you are in your Flirt SMS.

Law #1 -

Build suspense with timing (ten minute rule). You must, at times, build suspense when text messaging.
To create the roller coaster effect in the text message. I always teach the ten minute rule to people that are just getting started in texting. That is, "never send a text message within ten minutes, a text message to vulnerable".


In other words, if the person text messages you something that makes them vulnerable such as, "ya I'll come over, what time?" or "what are you doing tonight?", you need to hold them in that uneasy (vulnerable) place for ten minutes before giving the relief that everything is cool with you.


Let's take for example if you lose your keys or wallet. At first, it's not too bad and you start looking. Then over time become more hectic and you feel uncomfortable in. After about ten minutes, you are in a stressed-out state and you wish they would just appear!

When you finally find them, you get this rush of relief and you feel really good because of the suspense and possibility of not finding them. Apply this same rule in the text. Build suspense at times.


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